Mike just left. I am a mess. Right off, I can’t believe how incredibly quiet the apartment is and how completely alone I feel. It is amazing how someone who I was screaming at two days ago can now have me sobbing because he is not here. The heart is a strange muscle. I wish I could explain how empty I feel, but I can’t. I love this man more than anyone and he is my closest friend and makes me laugh like no one else can. Plus he is my mental touchstone. No one can make me feel at ease like he can. I just feel like half of me has been ripped out.
It makes me wonder if moving here was the right decision (I know it was, but times like these…).
I have allotted today and tomorrow for brooding. But, Tuesday I am back at work, and am prepared to put the nose to the grindstone, get back to my 14 hour long days and back at the gym with a vengeance.
I also found out that there is a knitting group that meets on campus. I think I will have to check them out.
Right now, back to crying and figuring out when we will see one another next.
September 3, 2007 at 1:00 pm
If it helps, you aren’t alone in your sorrow. Sending you a virtual hug and crying on your shoulder also. Be strong. We’ll both be ok eventually. It just sucks right now.
September 3, 2007 at 1:37 pm
Thanks, Trish. I am really sorry to read about Montgomery’s passing. I feel your pain and I am sending a virtual hug right back at you!
September 4, 2007 at 2:08 am
I’ll visit after I move to VA! I miss being able to drop by the library and hanging out with you.
September 4, 2007 at 8:26 am
Aww, hon. I’m sending lots of hugs and positive thoughts your way. Having gone through a similar situation, I know all too well the empty feeling inside when you’re away from the one you love the most. Find things to help get you through it and before you know, it will time for the two of you to see each other once more. I wish I could do more to help… *HUGS*
September 8, 2007 at 6:51 pm
Not that you need reminding, but I am a VERY short 2 hours away. Invitation NOT required, just get your butt down here.
Been emailing and IMing, keep missing you.